Aug 20, 2026 · 2h 34m
Jocko Willink and stand-up comedians dissect drone warfare and personal sobriety
Jocko Willink, Matt McCusker & Jeff Dye - Mostly Wise #3 - #1139
This conversation bridges the gap between extreme military discipline and everyday personal struggles, proving that the mental fortitude required on the battlefield is the same strength needed to conquer addiction and chaotic civilian life.
- 1The war in Ukraine has revolutionized tactical combat through the rapid, capitalistic development of fiber-optic drone technology.
- 2Navy SEAL selection relies on mental resilience that instructors cannot predict based on physical appearance or athletic build alone.
- 3Transitioning to sober dating removes the traditional social lubrication of alcohol, completely reshaping personal relationships.
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Jocko Willink details how the conflict in Ukraine has completely revolutionized modern tactical warfare through the rapid development of fiber-optic controlled drones.
The brief
Host Chris Williamson is joined by retired Navy SEAL Jocko Willink and comedians Matt McCusker and Jeff Dye for a conversation that bridges the stark realities of combat with the absurdities of modern life.
Jocko Willink explains how modern drone warfare in Ukraine is rapidly evolving through capitalistic tech cycles, transforming tactical combat faster than traditional military procurement ever could.
Comedian Jeff Dye opens up about his personal turning point, sharing the raw details of a car crash, his subsequent arrest, and the challenging transition to navigating the dating world completely sober.
The group contrasts the intense psychological selection of elite military operators with the everyday discipline required to overcome personal addiction and maintain long-term sobriety.
What was said on this episode
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Military training provides structure, discipline, and beneficial older-male influence.
“Everything that the military teaches, I think I needed and would have been great”
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Elite professional sports offer a better product than lower-level competition.
“I watch pro baseball. They're better than the high school boys.”
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Men remain the largest consumer group for women’s sports.
“the number one consumer of female sports is still men”
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Female-versus-male combat competition would be unfair.
“It'd be really bad to watch females fighting males. It would not be fair.”
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Navy SEAL selection’s baseline physical requirements are within reach of normal high-school athletes.
“the physical requirements are pretty low. Actually. They're not anything crazy. And if you were like a normal high school athlete, you have the physical capabilities of doing it.”
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Passing SEAL selection requires sufficient physical ability to climb ropes.
“if you can't climb that damn rope, then you're not making it”
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Physical training is necessary to pass SEAL selection’s basic competency tests.
“you need to train physically because otherwise you won't be able to get through any of the basic physical competency tests”
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Physical athleticism does not prevent SEAL candidates from quitting.
“you can have total studs Going through there and they quit just as much as a slacker”
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The usual Navy SEAL selection age cutoff is approximately 31, with rare waivers beyond it.
“It's around 31, I think is the actual cutoff. And occasionally a guy will get through that's like 32 or 33”
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Persistence in a candidate’s mindset determines whether they continue despite physical differences.
“There's something in their head that makes them not going to quit.”
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Navy SEAL teams likely still use unofficial trident-punching initiation rituals.
“I would be confident that they likely still do that.”
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Some martial-arts schools whip students during black-belt ceremonies, but the practice is not universal.
“He's walked down like a gauntlet of guys on either side. And then as you get your belt, you get whipped. Not everyone does that.”
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Military hazing rituals require safety limits and someone empowered to stop dangerous acts.
“if you have a hazing incident going down or a hazing ritual, you have to have a guy that's like, okay, hey, bro, no, put the scalpel away”
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Every organization contains some sadistic people.
“There are sadistic people in wherever, in any organization.”
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Some aggressive civilians become highly effective military heroes during wartime.
“there are guys. Even if you look back at the historical, you know, military heroes, a lot of those guys were totally out of control as normal civilians. And then whatever. A war broke out, they joined up, and they're a hero”
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Military working dogs are unsuitable household pets because they may bite people.
“You do not want one of those things as your pet in the house, because it will bite some people.”
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Exercise and combat sports can mitigate aggression among highly aggressive military personnel.
“working out, doing jiu jitsu, boxing, fighting, wrestling, and. And again, that's. You're doing that to. To mitigate the amount of aggression”
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The ideal combat soldier can contain aggression sufficiently to complete training and deploy.
“what you're looking for optimally is a Guy that can contain that enough that they can make it and. And still deploy”
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Without military service, some aggressive young men may enter gangs or criminal activity.
“If you don't join the military, what are you going to do? You're going to end up in some kind of a gang, you're going to be a criminal of some kind.”
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Working-dog selection is more stringent than military special-operations selection.
“The selection of working dogs is probably the most stringent, way more stringent than any military special operations selection process.”
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Only roughly one in 20–30 candidate dogs becomes a fully fledged working dog.
“one out of every 20 or 30 that actually become a full fledged working dog”
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Belgian Malinois can clear fences approximately eight feet high.
“They can clear. They can like 8 foot fence right over.”
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Nearly all military ground troops have access to military working dogs.
“Almost all ground troops have some access to some kind of military dogs and military working dogs.”
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The Navy uses trained marine mammals for military work.
“they have. They have mammals that work.”
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Running a marathon in wheelies is substantially harder than ordinary marathon running.
“It was way harder. It was infinitely harder.”
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Large ice sheets on Everest can detach and crush an entire base camp.
“giant sheets of ice will just, just flip off and they could crush that whole base camp”
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Igloos can trap an unusually large amount of heat.
“They just trap, like, an unbelievable amount of heat.”
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Igloos retain an exceptionally large amount of heat despite being made from snow or ice.
“They just trap, like, an unbelievable amount of heat”
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Wet people should remove clothing to get dry.
“You definitely have to wear clothes off if you're wet.”
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Adderall feels the same as cocaine.
“Well, like cocaine. It's the same, right? It is, yeah.”
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Adderall can make people with OCD organize compulsively.
“Adderall's great when you have OCD too, because you just like, organize a sock drawer you never looked at.”
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Adderall impairs the translation of stand-up comedy performance.
“I've heard Adderall is like anti comedy. Like people who have, like, I've done stand up on Adderall. It's just, apparently it's just a different wavelength. It just doesn't translate.”
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Alcohol withdrawal can be fatal.
“You can kill, you can die.”
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Xanax withdrawal can cause death.
“You can die from Xanax withdrawal, too.”
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Kidney stones are more painful than childbirth.
“It's worse than childbirth. Trust me.”
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Dating is harder for Jeff Dye after becoming sober.
“It is way harder because, like, drinking was. Is the easiest thing.”
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Love on the Spectrum exploits its autistic participants.
“I think everything. Everything they're doing is, like, too exploitive. I don't. I don't think it's good.”
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Adults with autism should be treated as adults on Love on the Spectrum.
“These are, these are, these are grown ups with autism. Like, treat them like adults.”
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The participants’ directness comes from autism, not dating.
“I like their directness, but that's just autism. That has nothing to do with dating.”
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Avoiding casual sex helps Jeff Dye remain emotionally stable.
“I think it's better. It keeps me more level.”
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Casual sex creates additional social entanglements.
“You start hooking up and then that's like, just inviting these like kind of social entanglements in your life.”
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Los Angeles and New York make long-term singlehood more socially acceptable.
“LA and New York are unique in the fashion that like everyone is so single for so long, it's more socially acceptable to be single.”
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Finding someone you love is better than the apparent excitement of single life.
“But trust me, if you found someone you love, you're winning.”
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Raw milk does not cause Matt McCusker’s digestive symptoms, unlike pasteurized milk.
“If I drink regular pasteurized milk, I get congested, I fart like. I'm like lactose intolerant. If I drink raw milk, no problem.”
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Raw milk spoils quickly.
“The only thing that sucks about is it goes bad really quick.”
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Jeff Dye believes marijuana use can reduce people’s pursuit of their ambitions.
“I feel like it's a dreamer's nightmare, you know? Like all these guys I know are chasing their dreams and then they smoke weed and they just don't do anything.”
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Cannabis affects people inconsistently, making it a poor shared social drug.
“The fact that it's so varied. Yeah. Means that it's kind of a bit of a shitty drug to do together because everyone's going off in different”
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Women entering late-night venues in sleeveless jackets are often ejected within an hour.
“70 to 80% chance she's gonna get thrown out within the next hour.”
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Alcohol is uniquely associated with assumptions that abstainers have problems.
“It's the only drug where if you don't do it, people assume you have a problem.”
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Some heroin users recruit others to create a supply relationship and obtain free heroin.
“people who start shooting heroin, there is a big thing where they're trying to get other people to start shooting heroin too, because then they get to be the guy who gets you heroin.”
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Cannabinoid manufacturers alter molecules faster than legislation can regulate them.
“It just keep on running away and the legislation can't catch up quickly enough.”
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Heating THCA converts it into THC.
“When you heat thca, it turns into thc.”
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VA loans allow eligible veterans to buy homes without a down payment.
“the VA loan. So you get a loan to buy a house and it's no money down.”
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Military service can provide veterans lifelong health benefits.
“The health benefits that you get for the rest of your life”
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Without atomic bombs, the United States would have invaded mainland Japan and eventually won.
“If we would have. If we didn't have atomic bombs that time, we would have landed on mainland Japan and we would have. We would have been a costly victory, but we were going to win.”
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People should avoid concentrating all resources in one uncertain forecast or strategy.
“So don't put all your money on the table on one bet because it's not a good move.”
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Overconfidence in predicting human and geopolitical behavior causes bad decisions.
“we make a lot of moves that we shouldn't be making just because we think we can predict things that we can't predict.”
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Anduril-type rapid innovators will become more valuable than traditional defense contractors.
“Why Anduril. Companies like Anduril, who are just going to make stuff and do it very rapidly are going to end up being much more valuable than the, than the old traditional.”
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Modern fiber-optic drones can operate with cables extending 60 kilometers.
“They have fiber optic cables that are 60km long.”
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Military technology and countermeasure cycles now occur much faster than during Iraq.
“But these things are just happening much more rapidly.”
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Russia reportedly developed a biological weapon optimized around incubation, mortality, and transmissibility.
“The Russians had developed this weapon that had. You know, you need to think about the incubation period, the mortality, the transmissibility, all of this stuff.”
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Military authorities may increase testosterone testing and supplementation for affected soldiers.
“they're saying they're gonna check them more and give them more testosterone.”
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Injury-prone military work can produce cycles of medication use to remain operational.
“a guy gets hurt, no one wants to come out of the game, right? No one wants to come out of the game. So you do whatever you got to do to stay in the game. And that means you're, you know, the cycle that I just talked about.”
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Jeff Dye supports comedians using substances if they improve comedic performance.
“If you're going to make better comedy because you smoke pot or you do mushrooms or whatever, then whatever it takes.”
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Jeff Dye favors allowing performance enhancement when pursuing excellence in comedy or sports.
“let him do it. I would do whatever it took to be the best at comedy.”
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Performance-enhancing drugs can create serious long-term health damage for military operators.
“the long term negative health impacts that they have is like you don't want to take these guys who and just destroy them from a health perspective.”
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Psychedelic therapy has been very helpful for some veterans.
“it's been very helpful to them”
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Psychedelic therapy has not helped a smaller number of veterans.
“a smaller number of guys that have done it and it hasn't been helpful”
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Improper psychedelic-therapy use causes adverse impacts.
“I believe that the people have had adverse impact. They didn't do it correctly.”
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Skipping psychedelic-therapy preparation and integration can be problematic.
“they didn't do the pre. Work and the. All that other stuff that you're supposed to do. They just kind of like got after it, you know, so, yeah, I, I think that's. That could be problematic.”
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Jocko Willink supports psychedelic therapy when it helps veterans.
“I've known a bunch of guys that have done it. It's been very helpful. So if it helps guys out. Yeah, by all means.”
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Psychedelic therapy should be used if it helps veterans.
“if it helps guys out. Yeah, by all means.”
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The Way of the Warrior Kid movie will release on Apple and star Chris Pratt.
“It's made by Skydance and it's coming out on Apple. It's starring Chris Pratt.”
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The Way of the Warrior Kid movie is suitable for families and adults.
“It's so good for families, for adults, for everybody.”
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