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Normal marital hatred
Topic
Normal marital hatred is a psychological concept popularized by couples therapist Terrence Real describing the inevitable periods of intense resentment, anger, and disillusionment that occur in long-term relationships. It represents a natural transition phase after the initial romantic projection fades, serving as a bridge between early harmony and a more mature, realistic connection.
What experts have said about Normal marital hatred
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Temporary hatred of one's partner can be normal in long-term relationships
“When you're in that dark phase, you hate your partner. That's okay.”
Open the episode · #880: Relationship Tools That Work — Esther Perel, Brené Brown, Dr. Sue Johnson, Terry Real, and More on Conflict, Repair, and Lasting LoveListen at 42:45
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