Rob Henderson

Works by Rob Henderson

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  The Myth of the Chad

  creator · article · 2026

What Rob Henderson has said on podcasts

6 statements

1. on looksmaxingNegativeAug 6, 2026· Modern Wisdom

   Extensive looksmaxing is counterproductive for the average man.

   “for the average guy, I think that amount of looks maxing would be counterproductive”

   Listen at 4:39

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2. on The Myth of the ChadNegativeAug 6, 2026· Modern Wisdom

   The belief that a small male segment has sex with all women is a myth.

   “the myth of the chad is that a segment of guys are having all of the sex with all of the women”

   Listen at 20:24

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3. on MonogamyPositiveAug 6, 2026· Modern Wisdom

   Monogamous marriage redistributed sexual access toward men outside the top mating tier.

   “marriage was affirmative action for sexual redistribution”

   Listen at 25:51

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4. on Tinder usersNegativeAug 6, 2026· Modern Wisdom

   College Tinder users score higher on Dark Triad personality traits than nonusers.

   “the users of Tinder scored significantly higher. Pretty sizable effect sizes. 0.3, 0.4 higher for the Tinder users and the non Tinder users”

   Listen at 1:15:40

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5. on Male formidability and sexual successPositiveAug 6, 2026· Modern Wisdom

   Male formidability predicts sexual partners, whereas women’s attractiveness ratings do not.

   “they found that how formidable they were, predicted how many sexual partners they had, whereas how sexually attractive they were to these women had no relationship at all”

   Listen at 1:33:51

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6. on Men’s sexual preferencesPositiveAug 6, 2026· Modern Wisdom

   Most surveyed men prefer an attractive but uninterested partner over an unattractive admirer.

   “something like 75% of men were like, give me the hot person who finds me ugly”

   Listen at 1:43:36

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1 episode featuring Rob Henderson

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  Modern Wisdom

  Evolutionary experts debunk the biggest myths of modern dating apps

  Understanding the evolutionary drivers behind attraction helps separate online dating anxiety from the reality of human mating behavior.

  Aug 6, 2026 · 2h 7m